Friendship

Life with its idiosyncrasies plays a very bitchy part sometimes. People often complain that others aren’t the same, & have changed. People change with time, their configuration changes, their priorities, and mindset changes. After all, change is the only things that are eternal in this universe. But it’s not really the people who change, or who are to be blamed for their behavioral transition. It’s the company they keep, the environs they dwell in, & the mindset of people they interact with, that enforces this change in them. It completely changes them over giving them a new individuality, & personality.

The ones, who were very attached once, become detached, & in this transition those who were distant become near. We gel with the like-minded people, whom we can relate with. Even though the individuals are north pole & South Pole, but if the mentality & the mind sets match, they make up a good pack, for the world to see. These people become so close that you can ultimately share your happiness, sadness & almost all daily activities with them. In other words you confide & surrender to them. But that's mutual & is healthy, till they don't indulge in each other.

We don't choose our relatives, but we choose the friends that we have. Friends that one has are a real imitation of you. People with same situations, priorities, & thought process are more prone to gel up well. Such people even reciprocate your energies, most likely the positive energies. So once such a protocol is setup, there is a vibrant flow of information & energy. Consider the case, that you have had a tough day in the office, & get back home tired, burnt out & drained, badly wanting to retire to bed. Suddenly a friend calls, & invites you over for a party. You are all revved up & charged, & end up in the party, having a complete blast. On the contrary some 1-hour back your instincts, energies, & motivation levels were down to sub zero, but a friend’s call lifted your spirits. Friend is for sure a soul lifter and a mood lifter, they’re to cheer you up, & take care of you. They act as a balm when you are in dire straits. They may not carry your load, but you knowing that they are there, makes a lot of difference, & makes your journey through life easy & comfy. Bon Voyage in this ship of friendship.